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| Pleasing your girlfriend's parents will be easier than getting her to marry you. |
Posted on Wednesday, September 21 @ 01:00:49 MST by root |
 | Do not be frightened about meeting her family when she takes you to China for the first time.
In most cases, they are all normally very nice. Also try to learn a few simple Chinese phases (e.g. 'hello', 'thank you'...) and remember to smile.
In most of old Chinese parents eyes, westerners do not appear to be serious about family and marriage.
Show your sincerity.
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Do not get too upset if your girlfriend forgets your birthday.
Most of the ladies are too shy to say "I love you".
Chinese ladies show their feelings in an elegant and indirect way.
Highly educated ladies expect you to share housework.
It is getting popular to share the cost of the wedding, however there may still be the traditional influence of the cost borne mainly by the groom.
Good education mean good future, so educated men (college level or above) are preferred.
Stable financial status is important because the hardship of the past is still fresh in the memories of many Chinese in China.
Ladies who have divorced or widowed, with or without children, have difficulties to find a husband again in China. Here is your chance to find a mature and charming Chinese lady!
During dating, most ladies are a little coy and would like to be chased by men rather than initiating moves.
In a date, men are expected to pay for dinners, shows, and other expenses.
Most ladies can not drink alcohol, therefore going out for dinner is strongly recommended instead of going out for drink. it is also better to choose a Chinese restaurant because she might feel nervous sitting in a western restaurant, ordering the food that she is not familiar and worrying about her table manners.
If your girlfriend helps you to tidy up your room on her visit, it means that she likes you and want to do something for you. Do not feel offended.
If she has a good command of English, she is normally well educated.
If she speaks little English, it doesn't necessarily mean her English is bad. It could be because she has had no chance to practice. Be patient, she will pick it up soon.
Do not just ask your girlfriend to merge into your world. You should also try to know and meet with her friends although some of them might not speak English.
The important days in her diary are likely to be
"Chinese New Year Eve (the last day of the year based on the lunar calendar)",
"Moon Festival (15th of August based on the lunar calendar,
the family gathering day", parent's and child's birthday...
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